Details include edging along sidewalks, walkways, curbs, driveways, stepping stones, and flower beds; trimming along walls, beds, around posts, fences, and anywhere else a lawnmower won't reach. Intricate lawn area's can really slow down the job.
The average person uses 700 gallons of water per week, as does 1000 square feet of lawn during the summer months.
I think it is reasonable to have lawns and keep them watered, if you can afford it. Water costs 1.5 to 3 cents per gallon, depending on your tier usage. In some cases, in outlying areas or non-single family properties, sewage charges can triple that amount.
Of course drought tolerant plantings are great, as are many types of alternative plantings. Lawns are the choice for many families. It is not a waste of water, as some people suggest. The main water users in Seattle are concrete suppliers, and the Ship Canal.
Also consider that normal rainfall over a small residential lot, over the course of a year - which is diverted by hardscapes - wastes about three times as much water as needed to water a 2000 square foot lawn.
Most lawns come back if they are not watered. Some require renovation to break up crusty soils that develop. You can observe the effects caused by different watering regimes on any neighborhood street in late October or May. At those times, healthy grass should be growing nicely from normal rainfall.
Corn Gluten is a pre-emergent weed suppressor that is non-toxic. It is available from Walts Fertilizer in Seattle. It reputedly works if applied at the right time. I am not sure if it works at all.
There are weed-control products available off the shelf which claim to to be safe, or safer, then products known to cause cancer etc. and environmental problems. Make sure they are labeled for the use you intend. Follow the label instructions.
Use slow-release fertilizer. I apply in mid-June and early November. Grass clippings left on the lawn give an added benefit equal to 1 application of fertilizer. Overfertilizing or fertilizing in early spring results in additional mowing and may cause other plant health problems.
I use "Perfect Blend 8-4-2" brand fertilizer with 8% nitrogen. It is available from Lowes, or call their office in Bellevue for other locations. It has good proportions of slow-release fertilizer and micro-nutrients.
Corn Gluten seems may be an OK product - probably a late spring or mid-summer fertilizer - It is available from Walts Fertilizer. It does not provide micronutrients, or a favorable n-p-k ratio, but is a good source of organic nitrogen. It can be supplemented with "Milorganite".
Use specially labeled products (not iron) for moss control on hardscapes. Follow label instructions. Scrape as much away as possible first. The dead moss eventually should weather away after moss-control application. I would use a pressure washer in cases where the residual dead moss is visually unacceptable.
Lilly Miller "Worry Free" seems to be a good product that can be used on lawns and hardscapes. If a lawn area is more moss than grass, it will need overseeding. I have had some success in seeding directly over freshly killed moss and then topdressing with compost. Otherwise rake the moss out with a rigid tine bow rake.
Try not to loosen too much topsoil, as topsoil beneath moss is good quality stuff. Apply moss control to remaining moss if needed, then overseed and topdress as above. (see renovation, below).
Caution: Lime drifting onto rhody's, azalea's, and other acid-loving plants may damage them.
To be effective, ten percent of the surface area should be removed. This will require several passes of the aerator.
Grass seed will not germinate until soil temperature hits about 55 degree's Fahrenheit. This occurs around April 1st. After October 10th, soil temps cool and there may not be enough time for the seedlings to establish. It takes about 7-14 days for for seedlings to establish, and allow 30 days before mowing. The lawn will continue to thicken over time, and will require overseeding spots, that remain bare.
J&B sun/shade grass seed is the seed I recommend.
Cranefly causes damage but does not warrant pre-emptive control unless identified. - spot treat with least-toxic available control (maybe neem oil) March thru early May if more than 25 larvae (tiny, skinny, wormlike critters) are detected per square foot. Problems are characterized by dead looking patches or area's of sod that are easily lifted from the soil.
Otherwise, insect or bug control will be counterproductive as beneficial earthworms, pollinators, predatory insects, and micro-organisms will also be wiped out. Pesticides have a greater potential than herbicides to harm human and animal life if used improperly.